Happy Relationship Stories

Cowtown Comedy · Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:04 pm Post subject: Happy Relationship Stories

Can someone please send some positive relationship stories?? Seems all we hear about is the psycho bar girl wife, that loves knives and buring down houses. Please send some happy stories..After reading so many depressing stories I'm scared to even talk to a thai lady.... Sad

Sabai Jai · Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 3:33 pm Post subject:

There was a recent positive thread on relationships, probably best to use 'search' to pick up on that one.

I think there at least as many good as bad news stories about relationships and the 'good & bad' aspects can be attributed to both Thai and European partners in similar proportions.

I think alot of it depends on knowing what you intentions and expectations are, keeping a cool and relatively sober head.

Looking for a potentialy faithful partner in a 'Bar Beer' also not strongly recommended. Join some sort of club or society that represents one of you interests and meet people that way, by participating and contributing in activities...

I've been in a steady and happy relationship for years, i was and am lucky. i think it probably is harder than it used to be...

SJ

richard · Ace Joined: 18 Feb 2003 Posts: 1649 Location: Hua Hin

SJ

Jockey · Ace Joined: 27 Jan 2003 Posts: 1851

Who wants to know about happy relationships? Thats boring. Knifes, extortion, cheating and arson are much more interesting! Very Happy

Sabai Jai · Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2008 4:42 pm Post subject:

Richard

That is often the most difficult part, giving trust if you have already had you fingers burnt even harder!

But you have to try and find some framework and a bit of common sense to narrow the odds

SJ

Big Boy · Legend Joined: 04 Nov 2005 Posts: 3241 Location: UK

johnnyk · Guru Joined: 02 Sep 2005 Posts: 998

lippy45 · Amateur Joined: 09 Mar 2008 Posts: 25

As you know I ve had my troubles here but it would nt deter me from another relationship with a Thai girl. Sure I will be CAREFULL next time but you cant label them all with the same brush.

You have to decide what your looking for and what your intentions are?
What are your expectations? Too many variables really!

1. Do You want a serious relationship?

2. Do you want something casual?

3. Do you want to go down the Bar Girl scene?

All three have plus and minus points and nothing is guaranteed.

The only thing I can say is that the more time you spend in this country hopefully the more you can learn about the culture and the way of life.
Maybe OUR biggest problem is that we use our western values and expectations in LOS and obviously this doesnt always work. The Thais may have diffrent expectations from farang.

Yep I agree that we do hear some bad stories but then again some do work out. Do we ever hear about the farangs who rip off and abuse the thai girls? No it always seems to be about the poor farang getting ripped off! Maybe its just one big game and you have to decide what your looking for and learn to play the game well!

Razz

bj.blackowitz · Specialist Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 162

my story: ( my GF is from the Phi, lives in Los for 6 years now)

Met a Girl Online on Thailandfriends.com
works as teacher got an even better job now thanx to my friends 1st time we met just had luch
stayed in contact further, phone, skype etc,
met again 2 months later and did the deed, she was still virgin
Met again in January while I was on pass thru .
stayed with me for 3 weeks in march
smart girl, fun, enjoyes being with me 24/7 and can deal with my moodswings as well.
will meet again in June ( will be staying in her new appt), will join me again in HH in august .

i'm 40, she is 28

happy ?
yes I am
so is she

dtaai-maai · Guru Joined: 30 Jul 2007 Posts: 834 Location: Thailand

DawnHRD · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:00 am Post subject:

bj.blackowitz · Specialist Joined: 08 Jan 2006 Posts: 162

well you better knower, off course I knew, I guess you never seen a virgin from clse up, I can tell you she was never penetrated before, and the blood that flew was not from me, nor did she have "mens". She told me before she was a virgin and would love to lose it to me, some girls still save it for their "night in white armor"

but I gues you can better go to the bars and fall in love for 1 week, maybee suites you better.

fyi : she is born again christian and has other values and normes.

Super Joe · Ace Joined: 22 Sep 2006 Posts: 1007

no i cant

withdrawn
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ozuncle · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:09 pm Post subject:

ozuncle · Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:11 pm Post subject:

bj.b
I think just the basic info would have been enough. We realy dont need the blood and guts thanks.
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